Why We Should Pledge to Attend Daily Minyan
Yourself: Going to services helps you to grow, gives you a time out when you can contemplate the good and bad in your life. It allows you to connect with others and connect with God at the same time. It allows you to be alone with your inner thoughts, feel closer to God all the while you are surrounded by those from the community.

To make a Minyan: A minyan, a quorum of ten adult Jews, is required in order to say certain prayers communally as a congregation. A minyan is required in order to read from the Torah with a blessing and to recite the Barchu, Kedushah or Kaddish. There is this great feeling to know that you are needed, that your presence counts and that the community can not be complete without your participation.

To maintain a Conservative Jewish community - Too often as Conservative Jews we like to say "Oh, I don't have to do that because I'm a Conservative Jew". In reality the reason the Conservative movement can into existence is about "conserving" the traditions - halachah (Jewish law). Our movement and congregation should not be about looking to get out of doing something but about doing things in a more meaningful way. By having a daily egalitarian minyan we our making a statement that we are a vital and religiously involved Jewish community.

For those saying Kaddish: There is a longstanding tradition of saying the Kaddish for eleven months after the death of a parent and one month after the death of other close relatives (brother, sister, wife, husband and children). There is also the custom of reciting the Kaddish on the anniversary (Yarzeit) of a loved ones death. Without a minyan you, your fellow congregants and that stranger who comes in one morning to recite can not honor their loved ones with the Kaddish.

For God: Most of us think of God in times of trouble. But, what about when life is good? If we only pray when we are in need, then we may rarely pray. Regular prayer was established by the Rabbi's so that we will think of God even when our lives are blessed. Prayer in its essence is a means of communication with God as an individual and as part of a community. Many of us today feel uncomfortable saying that we are doing something for God or because God wants us to. It just sound "Christian" to us. Its "in" to say we are doing things for ourselves, our friends and the community. But if we truly believe that there is a God who created the world and takes an active interest in his creation then it only makes sense that we should communicate with our creator. We pray to God in order to offer our praise, thanks, to make a request for the benefit of ourselves and others. As a form of communication we can also use it as an opportunity to argue with God and let him know what we are feeling. God already knows what we are thinking and does not "need" our prayer - but he does want our prayers - for us. I believe that prayer is a gift that God has given to us to allow us to connect to the source of everything.

 
Why We Don't
 
I'm too busy! Lets face it, we are all way too busy. Between our family and our jobs when is there time to help make a minyan! I know that my wife and I have to make a date if there is any hope of us finding time to truly with each other. So why not make a date with God each month? Setting aside 30 - 40 minutes (for morning minyan) or 10 - 15 minutes (evening minyan) each month should be doable for all of us.

I have to get to work! This has always my biggest problem, I have to be in my office in Manhattan by 8:30 AM and there was no way I could go to services in the morning and still make it to work on time. There are two solutions to this obstacle. One option is to participate in the evening service, which starts at 8:00 PM and only lasts about ten minutes (that right, just 10 minutes). The other options is to just do it. Most employers will not have a problem if they know that on the second Tuesday of each month you will be in a half an hour late. About two years ago I decided that I would start leaving work early on Fridays so I could participate in the Friday evening service. During the winter months this service starts as early as 4 PM. At first I felt awkward leaving work early and having to explain why. As the summer approaches, Shabbat starts later and I have been able to stay at work longer. Still, by about 4 PM on Friday my colleges at work often remind me and say "David, don't you have to leave already!".

I don't know how! The majority of the daily service is in Hebrew - a language that almost all of us don't understand and a lot of us can't or struggle to read. But remember, each page of the Sim Shalom prayer book has Hebrew on one side and English on the other. You will find that as you go to services on a regular basis that you will quickly learn how to recite the key prayers recited aloud. You should spend time meditating on a prayer in English at your own pace. While I can read Hebrew I am often (OK, always) unable to keep up with the leader. Therefore, I select key prayers throughout the service that I carefully recite and contemplate its meaning. I don't worry that the leader is ahead of me. When done, I just skip ahead to the next chosen prayer close to where the reader is. This way I am able to have a meaningful prayer and more or less stay with the congregation.

The Daily Service is just for men! Many women who grew up in a traditional home feel that participation in the daily minyan is primarily the obligation of the men. As an egalitarian congregation men and women participate equally in all aspects of our service and are counted in the minyan. Some women (and men too!) don't feel comfortable participating in certain aspects of the service such as being called to the Torah. That's OK, but we still want you to join us in making a minyan.

I want to but I just keep forgetting to! Funny that you said that, but we have an easy solution. If you sign our pledge card to attend services once a month we will have someone call and remind you! This will help OJC ensure that we have minyan each day and help you remember to come and fulfill your commitment.

What should I do now?
 
OK, now email me at david@oceansidejc.org and let me know what service you would like to attend, the frequency, your name and phone number or right click on the picture below to print the pledge card and snail mail it to the OJC office (see address and phone number above.